Tag Archives: Wedding Packages

14 Grand Reception Styling Designs That Will Wow You

Original article courtesy of Bride and Breakfast

When it comes to weddings, we always look forward to seeing the reception styling. There’s something about a plain space being transformed into an absolutely beautiful setup for a night that gets us feeling excited. We’re especially in awe of grand reception styling–the abundance of flowers, sparkle, and other grand elements and details totally make these types of weddings an experience to remember. Get into these gorgeously styled receptions that we have for you today, and feel the grandeur of it all!

1. Golden Glamour

Photo: MangoRed | Event Styling: Badang Rueda

Photo: MangoRed | Event Styling: Badang Rueda

2. Blissful Romance

Photo: Proudrad | Event Styling: Badang Rueda

Photo: Proudrad | Event Styling: Badang Rueda

3. Lush Metallics

Photo: Chestknots Studio | Event Styling: Badang Rueda

Photo: Chestknots Studio | Event Styling: Badang Rueda

4. Festive Gorgeousness

Photo: Chestknots Studio | Event Styling: Dave Sandoval

Photo: Chestknots Studio | Event Styling: Dave Sandoval

5. Enchanting Wonderland

Photo: Myio Okamoto | Event Styling: Dave Sandoval

Photo: Myio Okamoto | Event Styling: Dave Sandoval

6. Tropical Delight

Photo: Joseph Gatz | Event Styling: Gideon Hermosa

Photo: Joseph Gatz | Event Styling: Gideon Hermosa

7. Heavenly in Pink

Photo: Joseph Gatz | Event Styling: Gideon Hermosa

Photo: Joseph Gatz | Event Styling: Gideon Hermosa

8. Modern Regality

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Gideon Hermosa

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Gideon Hermosa

9. Woodsy and Whimsy

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Stylist: Michael Ruiz

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Stylist: Michael Ruiz

10. Ethereal Oasis

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Stylist: Michael Ruiz

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Stylist: Michael Ruiz

11. White Winter Wonder

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

12. Elegant and Dreamy

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

13. Vibrance and Blooms

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

14. Delicate Decadence

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

Photo: Adrian Ardiente | Event Styling: Teddy Manuel

 

Original article courtesy of Bride and Breakfast

Well-Loved Christmas Traditions Around the World

What are some of the well-loved Christmas traditions around the world?

  1. Revellion, France
  2. Saint Nicholas Day, Germany
  3. Thanksgiving, USA
  4. Posada, Mexico
  5. Kentucky Fried Christmas Dinner, Japan
  6. Giant Lantern Festival, Philippines

 

Christmas is a festive celebration! People from all around the world have their own beautiful traditions. Some of them have certain dishes to serve during the holidays; others exchange gifts while a few commemorate the birth of Christ. It really depends on the culture they have and practice.

You can say that each country has their own traditions during this time of the year. Some of them even influenced and inspired a number of holiday and wedding packages because of how unique and special they are.

Thinking of something that you could do in your event? We’ve listed down some Christmas traditions below so you can find out which ones you could do with your friends and family!

 

Réveillon, France

Christmas in France is all about spending time with friends and family; this involves a lot of food and wine!

The French celebrate Réveillon by staying awake to usher in the next day. Celebrating Réveillon essentially means gathering with family and friends to enjoy a multi-course dinner accompanied with champagne and wine.

Each region has different menus—all of which are worthy to be part of the best catering in Manila. They often include dried fruits, nougat, and other traditional sweets. The celebratory meal should always include fresh oysters, a fish course, meat and poultry dishes, an extensive cheese platter, and delectable desserts.

Saint Nicholas Day, Germany

Source: bakerynormand.com

Saint Nicholas Day, Germany

Starting from November, the holiday time in Germany is all about the Christmas markets, baking holiday treats, and decorating the house and trees while listening to well-known Christmas carols.

Every year on December 6, Nikolaus day is celebrated in Germany. This tradition is based on the memory of Bishop Nicholas of Myra, who is known for his utmost generosity and kindness.

Children would clean their shoes before the day and put them in the front door. The next morning, “good” children will find their shoes filled with colorful candies, mandarins, and peanuts. However, it’s not all that sweet. St. Nick often brings along Knecht Ruprecht (Farmhand Rudolph), who is the complete opposite of St. Nick. Dressed in dark clothes, covered in bells and dirty beard, he carries a stick in hand to punish misbehaved children.

 

Thanksgiving, USA

In the USA, Christmas is often partnered with Thanksgiving. It is celebrated every fourth Thursday of November. It is a day of giving thanks and spending time with family and friends.

As dinnertime approaches, family members gather in comfortable arrangements, which is often a room lit with candles of red, gold, orange, and brown. With the rich, cultural diversity in the US, families may also serve dishes that represent their ethnic backgrounds. Like most menus from the best catering in Manila, the Thanksgiving menu is not complete without the traditional Thanksgiving Turkey and a dessert pie, usually filled with pumpkin or apple.

Posada, Mexico

Source: holidappy.com

Posada, Mexico

Posada in Mexico is celebrated from December 12th to January 6th. Posada in Spanish means lodging or inn. Children often perform Posada processions or Posadas. There are nine posadas and they celebrate the part of the Christmas story where Joseph and Mary are looking for a place to stay.

Each night different households host a Posada party. At the final Posada, which isusually on Christmas Eve, a manger and figures of shepherds are put into a board. When a Posada house has been found, a baby Jesus is put into the manger and then families go to a midnight church service. Afterward, fireworks appear to celebrate the start of Christmas.

 

Kentucky Fried Christmas Dinner, Japan

Christmas is never seen as a big celebration in Japan. This holiday is seen more as a day of spreading cheer rather than a national holiday.

Japanese children receive their gifts on their pillow during Christmas night. One of the most popular meals in Japan is fried chicken accompanied with a special sponge cake with whipped cream and fresh fruits for desserts. KFC is extremely popular in Japan. It’s not uncommon to pre-order meals for the week of Christmas in advance, and it’s easily the busiest time for the famous fast food chain.

Simbang Gabi and Noche Buena, Philippines

Source: christmasinthephilippines.com

Simbang Gabi and Noche Buena, Philippines

Almost every Filipino will tell you that the holiday season begins on the month of September. Simbang Gabi is considered one of the oldest Christmas traditions in the country. It is a nine-day series of masses to honor the Blessed Virgin Mary. It is a common belief for Filipinos that if they completed all the days of Simbang Gabi, their wish will be granted.

Aside from Simbang Gabi, they also have the so-called Noche Buena. It literally means “the good night.” Filipino families often have  a big feast on Christmas Eve. The feast can be simple with a traditional dinner. But it can also be extravagant–a night filled with games and gift exchanges.

 

Key Takeaway

Christmas is indeed the most wonderful time of the year and many holiday and wedding packages are inspired by some of the well-loved Christmas traditions from all over the world.

Whether you’re celebrating a religious festival, indulging on holiday treats, or having a more secular occasion, we hope that you and your loved ones have a merry Christmas!

5 Things You Should NOT to Include in Your Wedding Package

What are things that shouldn’t be included in a wedding package?

  1. Too many expensive things
  2. A long guest list
  3. Unavailable entertainers
  4. Inconvenient wedding venues and other locations
  5. Non-professionals

 

Wedding packages are there for a reason. Planning a wedding can be pretty stressful from the get-go and we wish for things to be a little easier to handle. Thankfully, things like wedding packages are there to provide us with little saving graces by including any wedding essential in one neat little package to be availed of. With these kinds of packages and deals to be made, every wedding to come can be a breezy process all throughout.

However, while wedding packages include a variety of offerings for your own wedding, there are some things that should definitely not be included in the entire wedding itself, lest you want to risk any inconvenience happening on the big day. If you’re hoping to avoid that, here are some of the best things you may want to opt out of your wedding:

 

Too Many Expensive Things

Sure, we all want our weddings to be as luxurious as it can be. After all, it’s one of the many moments in our lives that we want to be memorable. However, it can be more memorable if you can actually afford the expenses that need to be covered for your wedding and too much luxury in your wedding can spell an early end for the celebration even before it begins.

With that said, too many expensive things for a wedding is a good thing to opt out in your wedding package. It’s okay to consider things of luxury for some items for your wedding, as long there are kept in close moderation and are also properly considered in terms of expense.

A Long Guest List

A Long Guest List

Another thing to consider when planning a wedding is your guest list. For this to properly work out, you must keep in mind the capacity of your chosen venue.

It is understandable if you want to invite all your friends and family. However, you really should contemplate the available size your venue has. It wouldn’t make sense if you invite 500 guests when your venue is only good for 300 people. If you do so, your wedding will feel cramped – and you wouldn’t want this.

In order to avoid this predicament, carefully examine your guest list and only invite the people closest to you. For sure, your other friends and family will understand if you explain your predicament to them properly.

 

Unavailable Entertainers

Another thing to consider in a wedding is none other than the entertainment that’s certainly going to draw a crowd for the event. In this case, there are only a certain number of entertainers around the Philippines that are sure to commit to the event you invite them for. Of course, you could try to contact your chosen act for your wedding. However, if they chose not to respond or tell you that they are not available, then it would be better for you to move on and find someone else.

Inconvenient Locations

Inconvenient Locations

We understand that some brides and grooms have a specific venue in their mind to hold their dream wedding. However, sometimes the truth is some of them are pretty hard to book, which is why we encourage everyone to book their weddings as early as possible.

In the event that your chosen location is unavailable for whatever reason, it is yet again best to move on and find somewhere else. Waiting for it to become available could be possible, of course. However, we wouldn’t want you to get your hopes up, which is why it would be better for you to look for somewhere just as good to hold your special day.

 

Non-Professionals

Most wedding packages are made possible thanks to the work of professionals in this field. When it comes to having a wedding, you definitely want to hire people, who have been trained professionally to provide the best service possible.

 

Key Takeaway

Getting a wedding package for your wedding will surely make your life easier as you plan the day that will mark a new chapter in your life. Be sure to add all the necessary items you would need in your wedding, but you also must not forget all the ones that you should definitely avoid to make everything flow smoothly during your special day!

6 Wedding Packages and Ideas to Include in Your Dream Christmas Wedding

What wedding packages and other ideas can you include in your dream Christmas wedding?

  1. Put up some Christmas-themed wedding decorations
  2. Pick a venue that is holiday-friendly
  3. Opt to wear a snowy-white wedding gown
  4. Have your bridesmaids wear Green Christmas dresses
  5. Hang a mistletoe at your altar
  6. Hand out “Christmas presents” to your guests in place of favors

 

With Christmas coming up in a matter of weeks, it’s only a matter of time when numerous celebrations will be upon everyone around. This includes Christmas parties, year-end parties, and even weddings. Weddings are quite popular this time of the year – mostly because some brides find marrying their true love during the holidays really romantic, which is why most of them book the best wedding packages and catering services on the month of December.

If you are a bride wanting to also hold your wedding during the Christmas season, then this is your lucky day because we’re here to help you out and give you a few great ideas you might want to consider for your own dream Christmas wedding. Here are some of them now:

Christmas-Themed Wedding Decorations

Christmas-Themed Wedding Decorations

Nothing can complete your dream Christmas wedding than holiday-themed decorations themselves. Putting this up on your chosen venue will for sure give your guests that warm and jolly feel one usually feel during this time of the year. Plus, they could prove to be a good distraction to your younger wedding-goers. They will end up looking starry eyed on that Christmas tree you set up to place your wedding gifts under. You may also hang some Christmas lights to give your wedding more of a holiday vibe.

 

Holiday-Friendly Venues

Of course, a venue is one of the most important things to be included in your wedding package; without it, you will end up marrying in the middle of nowhere.

For brides wanting to have their Christmas wedding, you may want to consider looking for venues that are holiday-friendly. This means that they should be able to provide you a setting suitable during the holidays. Also, you may want to select a venue that has some holiday vibe in it, such as the Palazzo Verde or Blue Leaf Filipinas.

Snowy-White Wedding Gown

Snowy-White Wedding Gown

There are only two seasons in the Philippines: summer and rainy seasons. This is, of course, to the dismay of some people, who wanted to have some snow on their special days. If you are one of them, don’t let this stop you because you could always come up with creative ways to have your dream snowy wedding.

As a bride, one thing you could do is to get a gown that will resemble snow, itself. You could even opt for one that has some snowflakes pattered around the bodice area. Or you could also have a custom made train to go with your entire theme.

 

Green Christmas Bridesmaid Dresses

Once you’ve found the perfect dress for this kind of occasion, it’s now time to decide the color and the design of your bridesmaids’ dresses. Since you’re all about the Christmas spirit, why not have Green Christmas as the main color and motif of your bridesmaids’ dresses. For sure, this will compliment your whole wedding scene.

Apart from Green Christmas, vibrant red is also a nice color for you to consider. This is also an iconic Christmas color that you may utilize on your wedding day.

Abundance of Mistletoe

Abundance of Mistletoe

When it comes to finding the perfect item to remind anyone of Christmas, no other item would be as iconic as mistletoe! Besides, who wouldn’t want to witness the bride and groom share their first kiss as husband and wife under the mistletoe?

For this particular wedding plan, go ahead and feel free to include this symbolic plant all around your venue. After all, a wedding is a celebration of unity, matrimony, and of course, the love shared between two people for all eternity. Plus, it’s just really cute for everyone to look at.

 

Christmas Presents as Wedding Favors

Of course, it wouldn’t be a Christmas wedding without a few presents here and there. Since it’s the season for giving, why not make your guests feel extra special by wrapping your giveaways to look like Christmas presents. You may even put them under the tree or get a Santa Claus to hand them out before they leave your reception.

 

Key Takeaway

Including these items in your wedding package will truly make your dream Christmas wedding extra special. Do take note that you don’t exactly have to utilize all of them; you could just pick some and use them well on your wedding day. For sure, it will take everyone’s breath away.

6 Best Wedding Movies that will Make You Want to Get the Best Wedding Packages

What are the best wedding movies of all time?

  1. The Hangover: A groom to be and his groomsmen have a bachelor party that takes a turn for the worst and hilarious.
  2. The Princess Bride: An action packed wedding movie with giants, chases, and fencing.
  3. Wedding Crashers: A couple of men crash weddings as their favorite past time.
  4. The Wedding Date: A wedding guest brings an escort to make her ex-fiancé jealous, but ends up falling in love with her fake date.
  5. Father of the Bride: A movie wedding centered on a snarky father-in-law.
  6. My Big Fat Greek Wedding: The highest grossing wedding movie of all time.

 

When you’re looking through a bunch of wedding packages, it could get pretty confusing. The truth is, making certain decisions can be very difficult and stressful. In these moments, you’re going to want to remind yourself that the challenges of wedding planning will be worth it in the end.

One of the best ways to get yourself back in the mood to plan is to take a break and watch the best wedding movies of all time. It could be internationally acclaimed hit films or beloved local Filipino movies. As long as it warms your heart, take a couple of hours off of your day to watch them. Sometimes, seeing love amplified on-screen is the motivation you need to go through the planning stress. After all, some of these examples had very drastic problems – sometimes even comical ones – that ended in an epic union.

So, let’s get straight to it. Here are some of the best wedding movies of all time:

 

The Hangover

This movie is probably not the best one to watch if you’re searching for romance. However, it’s a great reminder of the things that you and your partner should NOT do before the wedding; most especially the groom-to-be – he must make sure he doesn’t party too hard during his bachelor party.

But you can’t deny that this movie is a good laugh! Maybe that’s just what you need to alleviate your stress. Also, in the end, (spoiler alert!) everything turned out okay! Just don’t do what the wolf pack did and your wedding will go smoothly.

The Princess Bride

Source: Princess Bride Forever

The Princess Bride

When you see Westley always telling his Buttercup “as you wish,” you may start to think that this is just a cheesy romance movie; just like the common romance Filipino movie. Good for those couples that are romantics at heart. But for those who aren’t, this is still a great watch because it is full of action! There’s fencing, giants, chases, and so much excitement. It’s a great movie to watch to keep in the wedding spirit, while also being thrilling enough to make you forget about the stress of planning your own wedding.

Wedding Crashers

You wouldn’t want to have actual wedding crashers on your special day, even if they are as funny as Vince Vaughn and Owen Wilson. But, thankfully, this is just a movie; an extremely hilarious one! Watching this with your partner or your best friends is great for shaking off those wedding jitters.

The Wedding Date

Source: Fanpop.com

The Wedding Date

The lovely setting of this in-movie wedding will make you heavily consider an al fresco dinner for your wedding package. With a beautiful scenery like the one in the movie, who wouldn’t want it?

One thing you may not want in your wedding though is an ex trying to make you jealous (that is if you invite him/her). In this movie, Debra Messing’s character brings a male escort to her ex-fiancé’s wedding in an effort to make him jealous. Yikes! You don’t want that kind of drama on your special day. But, thankfully, she somehow falls in love with her fake date. Just goes to show that weddings can be special for everyone.

 

Father of the Bride

Something that you and your bride can definitely laugh about is your in-laws. Thus, “Father of the Bride” will definitely be very relatable to you; especially if you’re a groom-to-be, who has to deal with a snarky future father-in-law. But even with this premise, the movie shows that the wedding is not just for the bride and groom, but for all those that they love.

My Big Fat Greek Wedding 1 and 2

Source: Visit Catalina Island

My Big Fat Greek Wedding 1 and 2

Being the highest grossing wedding movie of all time, it’s no surprise why we’ve saved this for last! It’s a movie that shows love and acceptance will prevail above all; despite what kind of man or woman your parents think the ideal type is for you. After all, Toula’s dad accepted Ian despite him being not Greek… and vegetarian

 

Key Takeaway

While all these movies have their own big problems that could get you panicking… these are just movies! It won’t be the best wedding movies ever if the characters didn’t have to go through some big conflict to get married. We’re not saying that your wedding won’t have problems, but these movies show that true love will prevail no matter what.

So, don’t stress too much about the wedding packages. No matter what you choose, as long as it can celebrate the true love you share for your partner, it’ll be perfect. Go ahead and choose whatever wedding package you like and hire a planner if you need too. Nothing is too much for your special day. Take the characters in the movies, for example. No matter how hard it was for them, they still ended up having the perfect weddings and happy endings.

Celebrity Couples Who Got Back Together and Got Married with the Best Wedding Packages

Which celebrity couples broke up before getting back together and getting married?

  1. Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard
  2. Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel
  3. Prince William and Kate Middleton
  4. Nick and Vanessa Lachey
  5. Megan Fox and Brian Austin Green

 

Although Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez might not be looking at wedding packages – yet – their speculated reunion would be proof that true love prevails. Sometimes, your soul mate will go off on their own for a while but, if it’s meant to be, then he or she will come back and take that next step in their lives with you. Just take a look at the list below of celebrity couples who broke up, got back together, and got married!

Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard

Source: Elite Daily

Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard

When they just began dating, Dax actually broke up with Kristen! It was because he wasn’t ready to commit to her and wanted to get to know other girls. Though Kristen was obviously hurt by this, she admired that Dax was very honest and didn’t go see other girls behind her back.

However, it wasn’t very long before he realized that she was a keeper; being the most interesting to him out of all the other girls he dated at the time. They got back together, and eventually got married in 2013 with the best wedding package available.

Kristen said that she’s very happy, but she isn’t afraid to joke with Dax that they were almost never married in the first place.

Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel

Although they are happily married now, things got quite rocky for the two back in 2011. In March of that year, they broke up after dating for four years. It was a hard decision for Justin, as he told Vanity Fair in June of that month. He stated that she meant so dear to him, but had to focus on more important things in his life at that moment.

But being that the break-up was just because of a shift in priorities, the love never really went away. So in October of that same year, they got back together. From there, they looked at some of the best wedding packages, got them, and got married in October 2012.

Prince William and Kate Middleton

Prince William and Kate Middleton

As many know, Prince William and Kate Middleton have one of the most epic royal weddings in history! It was the most majestic wedding that anyone has ever seen! In fact, it invaded the showbiz news in the Philippines and television screens all over the world at the time.

So it will come to a surprise – to those that don’t know – that they broke up in 2007 after four years of dating. The Prince mentioned that it was because they were trying to find themselves individually. It turned out for the better because they became the perfect individuals for each other and they reunited and married in 2010. Now, they have two children together and will soon have a third!

Nick and Vanessa Lachey

When you think of Nick Lachey and breakups, you would think first of Jessica Simpson; since this was pretty public. It even made a big impact on showbiz news in the Philippines. You may forget that even he and Vanessa Lachey have had their own public split.

They broke up in 2009 after starting to date in 2006. At that time, they reassured their fans that they remain to be very good friends. In fact, they may have still been very close during this time because it only took five months for them to get back together. Two years later, they got married with a very lavish wedding and ceremony.

Megan Fox and Brian Austin Green

Source: People

Megan Fox and Brian Austin Green

These two are the couple on the list with the largest age gap – 12 years to be exact so you can expect that their mindsets on relationships were quite different. One is probably still exploring, while the other is ready to settle down. That being said, Megan felt like she was not ready to be married at the age of 23 and broke things off. This happened in 2009 and they were engaged for 3 years.

However, it didn’t take long for them to get back together. By 2010, they tied the knot. Things went well and they had babies: Noah in 2012 and Bodhi in 2014.

Things went south again in 2015 when Megan filed for divorce. Yikes! But thankfully, they patched things up in 2016 and even had another baby named Journey that same year. Now, they’re happier than ever and can’t seem to live without the other.

 

Key Takeaway

When love comes back, you know it’s true. These couples certainly knew it and decided to stay once they got back together. They also got married with the best wedding package ever to celebrate the lifelong love that they will share for each other.

How to Avoid Wedding Drama

How-to-Avoid-Wedding-Drama-JUAN-CARLO

Some of the best days of your life also have the highest potential of stirring up some drama. On your wedding day, this could come in the form of undelivered gift packages, wedding catering miscommunications, and relatives quarrelling.

Unexpected circumstances cannot be avoided completely. The earlier you accept this, the better it would be for everybody. That doesn’t mean though that you can’t minimize the chances of drama happening.

 

Communicate

Let your fiancé know of any changes you’ve made, big or small, and ask him/her to do the same for you. This is especially useful if you don’t have a wedding planner. This would mean that the two of you need to act as a solid unit so that all the 3rd party elements (caterers, venue managers, etc.) can follow your lead. It will be confusing for them if you make contrasting decisions separately, and unfair to get them caught up in the middle. Such a confusion could lead to miscommunication between the two of you and your 3rd part elements.

As for your guests, try not to make any big changes such as location, time, gift registry, theme, etc. once you’ve sent out invitations. If there are unavoidable changes, inform them immediately so they can rearrange their plans accordingly. Nothing will cause drama more than embarrassed guests who come in the wrong attire or time. Also be upfront about your rules for plus ones and children.

Time Tables

More precise information means less drama. Plan an itinerary or time table of your program and give a copy to suppliers, bridal party members, and other involved parties to ensure a smooth flow. With all the moving parts and people of your special day, one misplaced element can ruin everything. If you can get a set of professional stage managers to make sure everyone and everything is in place at the right, then do so. This will ensure that everyone will enjoy while making sure they attend to their responsibilities.

Delegate

Be leader and delegate tasks properly. Don’t do everything yourself because it is near impossible and will stress you out on your special day. For this reason, it is important to know your limit and look for help when you’ve reached it. Trusted friends and family could be good for this, but a wedding planner along with his team would be perfect.

 

Guest List

If you and your spouse know your guests well, then you will also know which ones are prone to drama. With this information, you can intelligently plan your guest list and where these people will be placed in the reception and wedding. Anyone with bad blood must conveniently be separated at all times. However, when in doubt, leave them out. It could be a cold thing to do, but you really wouldn’t want these people making your special day about them.

One particularly good example is if one of you have separated parents who are not in good terms. The first thing you should do is talk to them about being civil, and if they have any terms that they would like you to consider such as not having them seated in the same table. If you’ve invited either of the parents’ new significant other, make sure to inform the other in advance so as they can prepare themselves or opt to back out. Should anyone start any trouble, you have every right to calmly ask them to leave.

Break Tradition

Another perfect example of wedding drama is people fighting about the coveted maid of honor or best man position. Even though tradition says that you must only have one, you don’t need to follow this. If you have two best friends, then why can’t you have two maids of honor or best men?

When walking down the aisle you can also choose to go solo to avoid any drama amongst the people who feel that they should walk with you. You can even walk down with your fiancé. Be creative and think outside of the box about which traditions you can bend or break.

 

 

Unplug

Turn off your phone. You don’t need any external factors such as a passive aggressive tweet ruining your special day. Besides, you need to focus on the present 100%. It could be tempting to do so to see the latest pictures of your wedding or to see if everyone is having fun, but this is your wedding. You’re meant to have fun at the celebration; not in cyberspace. Give social media rest for the day and live in the moment.

Avoiding drama on your wedding day is all about being prepared, smart, creative, and practical. But above all, you must be transparent with everyone and respect yourself and your fiancé. Your wedding is all about the two of you and nothing should ruin this day. Your friends and family love you dearly and making the right rearrangements and informing them of it is the key to a drama-free day. D

How to Accommodate Handicapped Guests

How can I make sure an event is accessible to persons with disabilities?

  1. All pathways and doorways must be at least 32 inches wide and that the corners are maneuverable.
  2. The entrances and exits must have wheelchair ramps. If they don’t, then rent out portable ones.
  3. Bathrooms must have cubicles for the disabled with grab bars.
  4. There must be elevators or other alternatives for reaching higher or lower floors of the venue. It’s best if the elevator has low controls or an elevator operator.
  5. Work with the venue manager regarding the accommodations for the disabled.
  6. Allow such guests to bring a plus one that can help them throughout the event.
  7. Leave ample space for guests to sit comfortable at a table or pew.
  8. Have ushers attentively standing by in wait to address any concern a person with disabilities may have.
  9. There must be handicapped parking

Accessible Wedding JUAN CARLO

While choosing the best place to celebrate a wedding in Manila, catering to handicapped guests could easily slip out of your mind. Forgetting to make your venue accessible to disabled people could force them to go through inconveniences that could ruin their day and, subsequently, yours as well. You don’t want this type of complication at your wedding if you know you’ll be having guests that are persons with disabilities. Ensure that they will have a fun and stress-free time during your special day by going the extra mile to accommodate them.

Choose an Accessible Venue

Of course, when finalizing a church and reception venue, you would want to conduct an ocular. Usually, this is done to see if it fits your preferences and, more importantly, if it can accommodate your guests. Thus, you should check it for accessibility (the term used for products, devices, services, or environments made especially for the disabled). You should do this for both the reception and wedding venue.

The first few places you should check are the entrance and exit. These should have ramps for those that find it difficult to use stairs.

Then, check the pathway going to the specific room(s) and function hall(s) that you wish to rent. Be sure that there is no obstacle that can hinder a disabled guest. The hallways must also be at least 32 inches wide to have enough room for wheelchairs to pass through comfortably. While you’re at it, measure all the doorways, elevators, bathrooms, and ramps to see if the fit this criteria.

For the bathroom, check to see if there a cubicle for the handicapped. It must have a grab bar for your handicapped guests’ convenience.

If you’re venue has more than 1 floor, then it’s an absolute must that your guests have an alternative to taking the stairs. Check to see if there is another entrance aside from the main one for the higher or lower levels. Also, check the elevators (if any). These must have either low controls or an elevator operator for those in wheelchairs. If you know that you’ll be having a blind guest without a caregiver attending, then check if the elevator has brail.

Lastly, try to avoid booking a historic church as much as possible if you know you will have many elders and/or disabled guests attending. These venues may be beautiful venues, but they were also built during a time where accessibility wasn’t a priority. However, you may still choose to book this type of wedding venue if you can make the space work.

Make the Space Work

Regardless of whether or not you made sure that your venue is accessible, you must be prepared for special cases. Some venues may have accessible facilities, but these were designed around common disabilities. Your guests may have more specific needs. The most common of these special needs come when the wheelchairs and walkers that your handicapped guests are larger than regular ones. Even if you’ve made sure that the ramp is 32 inches wide, it may still be too narrow to such a guest. Other complications include narrow hallways, cramped pews, and maneuverability issues.

But don’t fret just yet. It doesn’t hurt to ask the venue managers what can be done about these. If the venue is a common venue for any family gathering, then the managers would know exactly how to handle guests with specific needs. For sure, they’ve seen it all. Let them know of your guests’ specific needs and they in turn can let you know what they can offer you.

It will also help to warn guests in advance of these complications. Then if it is okay with you, allow them to bring along a guest or caregiver that can help them. This will make them feel more at ease with the situation.

Wheelchair Ramps

If the venue cannot offer any means to address your guests’ accessibility problems, then you can choose either a customized ramp, portable ramps, or a different venue. Customized ramps are good as a carpenter can build exactly what you need; this will depend on the measurements of your guests’ need and the steps/ledges they will need to pass through. Portable ramps, on the other hand, offers mobility and flexibility you may need in case of an emergency.

Seating

At an accessible wedding venue, there should be spaces next to some pews for those in wheelchairs. These should be spacious and easy to get to. Be sure to tell ushers to inform guests on wheelchairs or crutches of these spaces and bring them there if choose to sit there. At the same time, these guests should be given a choice to sit wherever they want.

At the reception, remove chairs at the tables where for the wheel-chaired guest will sit. With a proper seat plan, you should be able to plan ahead of time where these empty spots should be in. Also, be sure to leave ample space in between tables so that maneuvering between them is easy. This will also ensure that sitting at a table will be comfortable.

Lastly, have ushers or waiters assigned specifically to assist persons with disabilities in both venues.

Parking and Transportation

No matter what the situation is for your guests with disabilities, there are two things you must check: the parking and the driveway.

At the parking, you must make sure that there are parking made especially for the handicapped. These are usually marked by the usual handicap parking signs. If this is not available at your venue, then you can assign the parking spots nearest to the entrance for them. Make sure that these have ample space for the guests to be able to exit their car comfortably.

But if these guests choose to get a drop off, then parking won’t be a problem. But you must make sure that the driveway has accessibility as well. If it doesn’t, then you must absolutely have a portable ramp.

For those coming via taxi, you must make sure that taxis or similar transportation services are available going out of your venue.

Key Takeaway

Taking the extra time (and going the extra mile) to make sure the wedding is accessible will ensure that your beloved family and friend with disabilities can celebrate your special day with it. All the trouble will be worth it when everyone enjoys the culmination of love you and your partner share.

 

 

How to Keep Kids Entertained at a Wedding

How to Keep Kids Entertained at a Wedding JUAN CARLO

Deciding whether or not to have kids present at your wedding is up to you – on one hand, having a wedding exclusively for the adults means less chances of having a screaming child during your vows. On the other hand, some invited parents might not be able to find a sitter and bail; kids can also be wonderful to have around.

Kids can be rowdy during the wedding and the reception, after all that’s just what kids do. However when they get upset and start throwing tantrums, it usually means that they are either hungry or craving for attention. Having a kid-friendly wedding means adjusting some things like the wedding catering (there should be dishes that the kids can enjoy) and of course, something to keep them busy while the adults are busy.

 

Treats

Most kids can stay in a good mood by giving them sweets and treats. Have someone trusted such as a family member walk around to offer treats and ask the kids to promise to stay on their best behavior. Be sure to choose snacks that are white or clear (like marshmallows and gummy bears) so that it won’t stain their clothes. In addition, permission from the parent must first be granted before giving kids any treats.

Childcare

Guests want to bring their children to the wedding but often choose not to because they know they might cause a ruckus. You can designate an area just for the kids and hire a professional childcare service for your wedding to make sure all the kids are entertained. They can hold games, arts and crafts, and movie showings to make sure the kids have fun while the adults are free to mingle and enjoy the event.

Hire a Professional Kids’ Entertainer

While childcare services are trained to entertain kids, nothing beats a showman. You can hire an artist, a clown, or a storyteller. If you have the budget, then invest in a good magician or superhero impersonator. This would be epic if the entertainer plays perfectly into your theme. Kids playing with the showman could not only be fun for them, but also it could be delightful sight for your wedding so long as it doesn’t distract from the main event.

Have a Game Room

Sometimes kids don’t need adults to have fun; just each other, a lot of energy, and a few games. Assign a room in your reception venue just for them and fill it up all sorts of activities! You can have ping pong/hockey tables, board games, hula hoops, jump ropes, dolls, and even video games there to entertain them. If you’re going to hold your reception at a hotel or club, then you might find that their game room is good enough for this. For a garden reception, then outdoor games are the way to go.

Plan the Meals

Consider dividing the buffet into two sections: a big one for adults and a small one for kids. A separate table could be dedicated to kid-friendly food such as nuggets, hotdogs, and burgers. It’s like holding a mini kids’ party at your wedding. The reason why you want to do this is because kids don’t like waiting long for dinner and could end up getting rowdy or mad; they just want to eat and play. At this table, you can add cups of crayons with white butcher paper to give them something to do.

Goody Bags

Along the lines of the idea of having a kids’ party within your wedding, you can also give out goody bags. These can have snacks, little toys, bubbles, etc. that will keep the little ones entertained. The best part of this is these are really cheap to purchase and prepare, especially if there are only a handful of children at your wedding.

 

It is important that the kids are well fed, entertained, and cared for. Make them feel like it’s a celebration for them as well. You’re going to want to remember your wedding as the day that everyone was happy and celebrating for you and your future husband/wife; even the young ones.